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MATCHinform Overview For cocactman

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This profile has been flagged as:

  • Possibly Dangerous
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MATCHinform Rating
1.50
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2 MATCHinform Reports Filed:
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Response Averages For cocactman

How many dates/meetings with this person?
0
0%
1
50%
2-4
0%
4-7
0%
7 or more
50%
Who made initial contact?
He/she did
50%
I did
50%
What method was used for initial contact?
"Wink" or site-generated "hello"
0%
E-mail
50%
After your initial contact how did you generally communicate with this person?
Primarily E-mail
50%
Email and Telephone
0%
Primarily Telephone
0%
Face to Face
50%
How would you rate this person's communications?
Excellent, a pleasure
0%
Good
0%
Fair, pleasant and polite exchanges
0%
Poor, not much to say
0%
Bad, better to delete rather than open and read
50%
How honest would you consider this person's profile?
A nearly perfect description, very honest
0%
Close, a little exhaggerated, nothing to worry about
0%
Puffed up, not what I expected
0%
False, profile was more fiction than description
50%
Absurd, not even remotely close
0%
If applicable, which aspects of the profile did you feel were incorrect?
Married
0%
In a Relationship
0%
Age
0%
Height
0%
Weight
0%
Body type
0%
Hair
0%
Employment
0%
Dating goals
50%
Location
0%
Other (explain in essay section)
50%
As a date, how does this person rate?
Fantastic, the night went too fast and ended too early
0%
Very good, nice company
0%
Good, polite
0%
Fair
50%
Poor
0%
How would you rate this person's sense of humor?
Hilarious, should be doing stand-up
0%
Funny, quick-witted and entertaining
0%
Cute
0%
A little annoying, doesn't know when to quit
50%
Torturous, should stick to facts and figures
0%
How would you rate this person's general appearance?
Stunning, a joy to have within visual range
0%
Attractive, pleasant on the eyes
0%
Average
50%
Below average
0%
How did you feel with regard to your safety with this person?
Completely secure, wouldn’t hurt a fly unless protecting me
0%
Safe, normal, nice and polite
0%
Unsure, would think twice before giving my home number
0%
Unsafe, would rather leave alone than walk with this person
0%
In danger, would like to have had a friend present as an escort
50%
Did this person discuss exclusivity with regard to your dating?
Yes
50%
No
0%
If exclusivity was insinuated, do you feel this person abided by it?
Yes, I saw no signs that there was anybody else in the picture besides us
0%
Most likely, we spent lots of time together and the person’s profile was promptly removed from view
50%
Not sure, the person’s profile remained viewable on the dating website
0%
No way, this person was obviously a casual web dater
0%
Would you like to see this person again?
Absolutely, cannot wait
0%
Most likely, could be fun
0%
Maybe, but I am not waiting by the phone
0%
Probably not
0%
No way
50%
If you were not going to see this person again, would you recommend this person to a friend?
Absolutely, not for me but would be great for somebody else
0%
Most likely, nice and polite
0%
Maybe
0%
Probably not
0%
No way
50%
What was the reason you never had a date with this person?
He/she stopped communicating
0%
I ended communication
0%
Time did not allow for it
0%
Other (Please explain in essay section.)
0%
Would you still like to have a date with this person?
Absolutely, hope to hear from him/her again
0%
Most likely
0%
Maybe
0%
Probably not
0%
Absolutely not (Please explain in essay section.)
0%

Comments About cocactman

Had one date with this guy - and appreciate the heads up on what a loser he is! Despite what seemed like a respectable package, gave off creepy vibes. Glad to find out he is a true nut case.

24-January-2008, 12:22PM

"Cocactman" should be avoided at all costs. He is a serial abuser of several past girlfriends and the ex wife. Don't let first impressions fool you. He has serious psychiatric and anger management issues. He will charm you for several months, get you hooked, tell you he "loves" you after a few short weeks, then begins a long and sick process of manipulation, control, and emotional abuse that runs the entire gamut. His anger is explosive, he will always project the root cause of his anger from something you did, will criticism you mercilessly, and twists reality into their opposites (blames you), all the while denying he has a problem. It is crazy-making! His years of therapy and heavy pharmacuetical treatment has not helped. He is possessive and can be insanely jealous. His abusive come from core feelings of entitlement and from deep-seated misogynistic attitudes. Pay attention to all of the warning signs. In addition, Cocactman has a serious obsession problem with Internet porn. This guy is a time bomb who will coerce you into non- mainstream and deviant sex, will turn from "Mr. Nice Guy" into a verbally assaultive monster who will degrade, dehumanize and tear you apart over time-- due to some deep seated emotional illness on his part. Protect yourself from his man and warn your girlfriends to avoid his profile.

13-January-2008, 11:18AM