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MATCHinform Report For cocactman

Submitted on 13-January-2008, 11:18AM

"Cocactman" should be avoided at all costs. He is a serial abuser of several past girlfriends and the ex wife. Don't let first impressions fool you. He has serious psychiatric and anger management issues. He will charm you for several months, get you hooked, tell you he "loves" you after a few short weeks, then begins a long and sick process of manipulation, control, and emotional abuse that runs the entire gamut. His anger is explosive, he will always project the root cause of his anger from something you did, will criticism you mercilessly, and twists reality into their opposites (blames you), all the while denying he has a problem. It is crazy-making! His years of therapy and heavy pharmacuetical treatment has not helped. He is possessive and can be insanely jealous. His abusive come from core feelings of entitlement and from deep-seated misogynistic attitudes. Pay attention to all of the warning signs. In addition, Cocactman has a serious obsession problem with Internet porn. This guy is a time bomb who will coerce you into non- mainstream and deviant sex, will turn from "Mr. Nice Guy" into a verbally assaultive monster who will degrade, dehumanize and tear you apart over time-- due to some deep seated emotional illness on his part. Protect yourself from his man and warn your girlfriends to avoid his profile.

How many dates/meetings with this person?7 or more
Who made initial contact?I did
What method was used for initial contact?E-mail
After your initial contact how did you generally communicate with this person?Face to Face
How would you rate this person's communications?Bad, better to delete rather than open and read
How honest would you consider this person's profile?False, profile was more fiction than description
If applicable, which aspects of the profile did you feel were incorrect?Dating goals
Other (explain in essay section)
As a date, how does this person rate?Fair
How would you rate this person's sense of humor?A little annoying, doesn't know when to quit
How would you rate this person's general appearance?Average
How did you feel with regard to your safety with this person?In danger, would like to have had a friend present as an escort
Did this person discuss exclusivity with regard to your dating?Yes
If exclusivity was insinuated, do you feel this person abided by it?Most likely, we spent lots of time together and the person’s profile was promptly removed from view
Would you like to see this person again?No way
If you were not going to see this person again, would you recommend this person to a friend?No way

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